In a relationship

Happy 2012 peeps!!

Nothing new or special to me actually coz to me, it's just another day =S
But being a human, you gotta celebrate it too because it's a.....well, a new year. A post on that later =)

So for now, it's about us back in August 2011 =_____=

But before that, I'd like to share something here. Sim sent me a youtube link the other day. It's regarding the stages in a relationship that I believe most of the couples have to go through. Here it is, post it here for future reference heee...



After watching it, I personally think that it is kinda true and it somehow shows in most of the couples I know. Well to summarise them, there are 7 stages. Stage 1-Meeting: Well, stranger meet stranger, became friends, and continue to be friends. Stage 2-Chase: They say it's the best part in a relationship. I'm not sure about guys, but I believe girls love this. You know that kinda feeling when you're so unsure about that person, you wanna find out more about that guy, you hang out together but knowing that you have crush on each other but none wanna speak out first because they just enjoy every moment of the companion and chats, when you are together everything you talk or think or do is so...erm how do I put this, it's like I-don't-care-about-the-random-people-around-us-or-anything-in-the-world,-I-just-want-to-spend-the-day-with-you that kinda thing and it's like everyday there's something to look forward to. Of course that's awesome but people, these kinda things won't last forever for most of the couples. Stage 3-Honeymoon: Yeah honeymoon! You're now officially a couple and you get to do what other couples normally do. Just spending time together, getting to know each other's family and friends, love each other more each day - basically, you're on cloud nine everyday. Then come Stage 4-Comfortable: Most couples I know are on this stage ehh. This is when, according to the narrator, "you can truly be yourself" stage. You know, you just couldn't be bothered on the way you eat, sleep, sit, talk, laugh, or whatever you do because both of you are already so used to it. There's nothing to be embarrassed about anymore. So this is actually one of the crucial stage where you and your partner gotta maintain the relationship and not "take each for granted" says the video and you'll end up happily, else, you'll be on a bumpy ride heading to the next stage, Stage 5-Tolerance: This is when your feelings for him/her are not as much as before (to put it in a nicer way) and when couples argue most of the days over the smallest thing, everyone gets upset over each other, both couldn't compromise, etc. It's bad yeah. Stage 6-Downhill = On the way to breaking up. Endless arguments until one stops trying. Stage 7-Breaking up: The end.

I don't think there's any couple in the world that has the perfect fantasy-like kind of relationship and hence here I am admitting that although Sim & I do have our unhappy moments, but so far, we never had any serious arguments before and I am truly glad for that! He is one of the most understanding person I can ever think of! =) Thank you dear :) So yeah, that's that. Happy trying to every couple!

Annnddd....back to August 2011. One week after my birthday surprises and all...back to a normal day, just like any other day. Only difference is, my days are always a happier one when Sim is around because we both love to eat and he's always bringing me to awesome places to eat awesome food with awesome-must-have alcoholic drinks! Lol.

Actually there's nothing really I wanna blog, just pictures of our dinner =_=

Our favourite shrimps!
I think besides their shrimps, there's no other food on the menu that is great =S

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My memory fails me. I cant remember how it tasted :/

Trying to relate this post to the youtube video above, I think Sim & I are on Stage 4 - Comfortable. Actually don't need to think, it memang is -_- To prove that we're not a boring couple where they normally eat and go home and do own stuff after that (if you do this every time for the next 2 years, then congrats! You're on your way to Stage 5 -.-), we went for a short walk! Lol so not "boring" -_- But heyy, at least we held each other's hand and talked our hearts out and just talked stupid things! These are the things that would keep a relationship going. Oh ya so we talked and walked and he got thirsty so we ended up at Sunway Resort Hotel's bar...lol.

Veryy beautiful place.

The only thing we can afford here...a glass of long island ice tea lol.
Comes with complimentary snacks lol2.

Look at the comfy seats. I think we can chill here the wholeeee day!


Us at our own moments, no disturbance.

Being in a relationship isn't a bad thing at all like how some forever alone people would make it sound like it's a terrible thing. I don't blame them, maybe they just haven't found the right one. I honestly love a companion, I love how I'm being loved and cared for, I love the fact that I have someone to talk to, I love everything about being in a relationship... And thing I love most about this relationship of mine, he respects me and gives me the freedom and privacy of my own. He trusts me and believes in me. And most importantly, he truly loves me. Me towards him? More than anything :)