Post-wonderful day 9

Dear bloggie,
Today has been a great day. Didn't emo much, spent half the day working, came back from work jogged a little, and watched a movie after spending 1 hour in the bathroom showering and washing my hair reeeal clean :D Then I spent the remaining of the night googling for stuff to read... read fun facts about the Batman, the movie, about other movies, other actress, and other dead people as random as Rudolf Hess... Mannn I'm so weird :/ Apart from all that, nothing much. Been wanting to go for happy hour, colleagues been screwing me for ffk-ing her thousands of time, but yet, don't think I should spend that kinda money unnecessarily. I have stopped giving my parents money and my goal now is to at least give them a little every month. I will soldier on till end of this year and see how it goes..

Going to bed now. Just hope I can sleep through the whole night. I've never failed to wake up in the middle of the night every fucking single day now. Seriously no idea why. Fuck shit.

Post-wonderful day 8

Well, it's actually been exactly a week since fatty left. Felt like a month already. It's no fun at all. This is the first weekend I had to live on without anything to look forward to. Then there will be next weekend, which will definitely be worse, the week after, and the week after... At least I have classes to keep me occupied all the time, not much time to think and emo.

Didn't post for the past few days not because I have recovered from all of this but due to my busy schedule of studying for progress test, that crazyness of P2 paper..., hunting down roaches, I think it should rather be being haunted by roaches, and busy blocking humans from whatsapp because suddenly everyone can see me now... Life's still great so far, just lack of time to actually lie on the bed and think through stuff which I used to back then when I had lotsa excess time. Can't wait for the year to end and hoping for 2013 to come asap. I wana get done with this paper and move on. For the next few weekends will be hell as we are all told not to skip those classes coz it will be very important, hence the additional unnecessary stress. I guess besides classes, there's really nothing I am looking forward to, not saying that I'm looking forward to attend those classes, but at least it occupies one weekend. And very quickly, I can sit for the exam :)

Anyway, posted this for myself to monitor how things have gone so far. Nothing much. Nothing great. Still lprefer staying alone... don't have to entertain anybody and all.

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Felt very very down out of a sudden. I think I better just go to bed right now. Really can't stay up feeling this way...or I'll die real fast.



Post-wonderful day 3

Many people often say that all you need is trust in order to survive LDR. I beg to differ that. It's normally easier said than done. I am sure most of the LDR have trust and communication and honesty and unconditional love, etc, but yet, many didn't work out. I guess it is individual's will and determination to hold on to it. It's definitely not easy and I can't see where this is going, but I have faith. I have faith that we are steady enough to move on to the next stage of our lives. All we need now is to stay strong. In fact, I think I am stronger than how I thought I'd be, even though I still feel terrible, just not as bad as I imagine it to be. Or perhaps reality hasn't kicked in yet? It sucks, it sucks so bad that I can't sleep properly for the past few nights. Distance sucks and it sucks even more when I know fatty is not happy over there as well. For one, this is not what he really wanted to do. And secondly, he calls the place a choddytown. I understand very well actually and this made me really sad that he has to spend 2 years there doing things he doesn't like and live at a place he doesn't want to be. Well, I guess it is still better than living here in Msia. All I hope now is for him to enjoy whatever he's doing when the sem starts in August. I really really hope it will be fun and he will enjoy every second there.

I regret... for going to Bali last month. I should've kept the leaves to accompany him for this 38 hours trip. Seeing how tired and down he is, I feel so extremely terrible :( Sigh... How much better would it be if I were to follow him...even for just a month. It will be so worth it despite having to take unpaid leaves and skip classes. Damn I'm such a moron! I miss him so badly now :(

Post-wonderful day 2

Fatty has not contacted me yet since last night. He managed to find an internet kiosk at the airport at Dubai and emailed me from there. I cried so hard reading the email. Slept off after that and woke up feeling alright for work. Waiting for his msg now telling me that he's landed safely =(

Waking up for work today was okay. Reality hit again during working hour. I was just staring at my laptop blankly. Didn't know what to do or what to think about. Just sat and ttm the whole day today. And for the first time since I work here, I felt like resigning. 2 more jobs waiting for me to lead in August and I have no idea if I can manage it if I continue to feel this way. Sigh..

Nothing much can be done now I guess. Only time can heal the sorrow.

UPDATE: YAYYY he's in Atlanta now!! Riiiiighttt after I'm done typing the last word, I received his sms hehe!

Post-wonderful day 1

Well, copied from my FB wall:

And so, this is it. The day has finally arrived after a really long wait. I'm actually still in disbelief that he's left the country, it feels like it was just a minute ago when we were still sitting down chatting, watching movie, emoing.. But one thing for sure, I managed to hold on and not cry =) Well, it is very painful to see him leave but it will be more painful if he feels sad and down if we were all to cry.. Hence, the no crying policy so that he can leave the country, happily and with no worries. Of course it is not easy to hold it, but Snowman, please remember that every teardrop has its reason, today we cry seeing you leave, 2 years later, it will be tear of joy so make us proud aites! Love.

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Fatty just smsed me justnow and he's in Dubai now waiting for the next transit. So glad he touched down safely. 2 more flights to go! Just pray he'll have a safe journey all the way home there. I miss him already.

Though I am feeling rather terrible now, the depression part hasn't kicked in yet, as compared to the times when he went UK for 2 weeks, both the time I was terribly affected. This time probably I am too lost to feel the reality yet. Or maybe I am that strong...I dunno.

Ayways, a big turn out today at the airport. Didn't know so many people would come and bid farewell to the lovely guy who everyone adores. Glad to see that he's being loved and cared by so many people around him :)

My friends are not that bad either lol. Received numerous msges and smses from my girlfriends and Fatty's friend asking me how am I doing, checking if I am fine, words of encouragement, etc. Everybody is just so sweet :) I am so thankful for having all these people around me too :)

Hopefully, I can climb back up and be the normal Trina again :) And hopefully too, I won't have to continue with this post-wonderful days blogpost after a while.

I miss my snowman.

This is it

So finally here it is! Today is the day :) I've been feeling rather normal since yesterday, much better than what I thought I'd feel especially for the last few days. Probably I succeeded in not wanting to think too much coz I know of I do,I'll cry and I don't want that to happen.. Of course later at the airport I can't hold back and whatever happens next, that's even much more of a headache.. Well, whatever it is, I'm so glad that he's finally leaving to a place with real snowmans :) Dear Snowman, Please take a very good care of yourself and never forget to strive what you desired for.. Remember that all of us here love you and whenever you need anything, we'll all be here for you. All the best to you and do us proud! And don't forget to have fun!! Last night I had one of the most wonderful sleeps ever :) I love you :)

4 wonderful days

Four days left to the departure day. Didn't expect it to come this fast huh.. Well, it has to come one day, I'll be very very sad for sure, just couldn't imagine how it'll be on the day and the day after, and perhaps for the whole month and it might also drag over a few months... but, at the same time, I'm very very happy for him that finally, he gets to leave the Cinnaland. Remember, there's nothing more than doing something you really like, though we all know this is not what you really really wanted, well, at least you're halfway there :)
  
  
Watched a youtube video on the case study method they taught in class in that school... everyone sounded so smart, just so intelligent. Really hope to see you enjoy yourself with all those packed schedules, I'm sure it'll all be interesting :)
 
 
I'm thinking of taking up additional classes too. Perhaps British Council English class. Since it's subsidised by the company anyway, why not right? Only thing is it''ll eat up my training budget, which means I don't get to go for many trainings/ seminars / etc. And classes are once a week I think which also means that I'll be so worn out with no time to rest. Oh well, options are mine to make and I will make a wise one. I can't let the gap grow further apart so whatever the case is, I must strive hard to achieve at least something :)
 
 
Time to sleep now... Í guess I'll have the best ever sleep tomorrow night ;)
 
  

The Rose by Westlife

<3

5 wonderful days

This song just pop out of my mind suddenly.
Oldies songs are love.

6 wonderful days

I've been very busy lately, from attending hell lots of classes, doing homework last minute, exercising in hope of losing weight before the end of my wonderful days and whatever I should do before the day comes. Seriously so tired, especially with the lack of sleep everyday :(

Doing homework right now feeling so damn lazy =\ This sem's gonna be crazy. Looking at the notes itself can kill me already sigh...

Anyway, not here to rant today. Just wanna share a pic... a freaking beautiful pic!

Nice riightt?! :D

The coming days will be hell for both of us but I know for sure he can manage it steadily :)

He's always keeping to himself, and in years to come, I'm just waiting for the bright and cheerful him to come back, no longer the dark and gloomy guy.



8 wonderful days

One week and one day to go!! To be honest, I seriously do not know how should i feel. For a moment I am okay, and a second later I'm feeling so emo. Damn emo songs. *switch to hiphop songs*

Oh well, today is a rather alright day. Of course spent half of the day in class, trying to stay awake the whole time -_- Came back home and jogged 30 minutes! C'mon 6 packs when will you come to me? Tired larr!

Mehhhh 10pm already gotta do my homework now T_T

I miss my snowman =(

10 wonderful days

Seriously, it's not that wonderful everyday -_- I can't sleep well every single night and every morning when I wake up, it is hell! I can't fucking understand why the hell do I wake up at 3-4am EVERY FUCKING SINGLE DAY! Sighh...

Anyway, everyday is a hectic day. Not at work but each time I come back home. For instance, today I came back, jogged for 30 minutes, chilled a bit, prepared food for dinner, eat, took my bath, and pooofff it's 11pm already wthell! Guess I should cut down on cooking coz that always take up most of the time I have...but it's for the sake of saving moolahh sigh..

Didn't update yesterday coz I went for happy hour with 2 of my colleagues. Those crazy girls lol. These people just joined the company like 3 months ago but we can really click and it's a good thing!

 The bunch of people that are bullied by me everyday LOL!

It's Friday again tomorrow yayy!!

12 wonderful days

I woke up in the middle of the night last night and noticed that fatty was not on the bed. I remember we went to bed together so I thought he went out to the hall coz he couldn't sleep. I sat down for a while on the bed and looked at the gap underneath the door to check if the lights outside were switched on. No it wasn't. And then I just remembered that fatty left for Mlk just 4 hours before. Hence the lack of post for the past few wonderful days =)

I heart my fatty!

17 wonderful days

Nothing much to blog today coz fatty is coming today!!! :D

Went to shop for his stuff after work justnow. Been surveying for the past few months to see what to get him and being the damn practical him, I got him real practical stuff. Just unsure if there's still space left in his baggage to bring it over there :\

Anyway, few minutes more and I'll get to see him! Yeappiee! :D

18 wonderful days

Well, let's start of this post with a pic of us <3

Pic taken during one of our awesome getaways :)

Will blog about it if I ever rmb :P

Today is kinda great day. Though nothing really interesting happened, I kept myself occupied with work and as usual, making everyone at office laugh. Somehow my colleagues always find the things I said funny even though sometimes it is not meant to be a joke -_- Lol but saying stupid things to make them laugh and even be awarded with a "Best Actress Award" would always cheer up our working environment among us. So guess that's actually a good thing :D

The said "award" -_-

They always claim that I can really act especially whenever I was in front of boss swtt and also when dealing with clients -____-

Or any other times when I wanna korek information from anyone lol!

Anyway, today has been a productive day for me even after coming back home. Jogged a bit justnow and feeling so awesome now! Stopped jogging for quite some time due to exams but surprisingly, I can still do 30 minutes without feeling tired! Aweeeeesome! Gotta really lose those fats all over me so by hook or by crook, I NEED TO FUKING GET RID OF THOSE FATS! Can't wait can't wait to see the slim me again! ^^v

Wish me luck! I need 'em!

And I love my snowman so much!

19 wonderful days

I know I've been posting all emo posts lately. Seriously, what on earth was I thinking man..

Read back edi also wanna puke -_-

I wanna start blogging cheerful things again! Haha I know I always say this and it never happens, but at least lemme tokkok abit ken?

Anyway, it's 19 days more to the official day. Today I'm feeling rather good actually. Probably I'm too occupied with work and many other stuff to settle before this coming weekend ^^ Gotta get done with my looong to-do list eh!

Some random facts/ thoughts:

1. I've gained weight!! No I AM SERIOUS! I have flabby arms, FAT thighs, super huge tummy I SWEAR TO GOD I AM NOT LYING!

2. I have classes from 8am-6pm during weekends now.
Classes + Lack of rest + lack of exercise = Good knowledge x (Fat + Ugly skin)

3. I love to work after Mondays or sometimes Tuesdays.

4. I wanna get a puppy! Wrrooofff!

5. Colleague said that my boobs are bigger today.

That's all ciaoz!

20 wonderful days

I knew this day will come one day but I didn't know it will come this fast. Just in a blink of an eye, it's been 2 years. Exactly 20 days more I won't be able to see him during the weekends after weekends again... and there won't be anything for me to look forward to anymore during the weekends. As much as I want him to do something more useful and meaningful in life, and to put his great mind to good use, I still can't accept the fact that I won't be seeing him for God knows how long. But yet, like what I told everyone, all I need is time. I believe I will be able to get back on track and live like a normal person after a reasonable time...

Been constantly telling myself that everything will be alright, everything will be fine. I know I will somehow pass through this tough stage and years later, we will get back together with an even stronger relationship and love for each other. To pass through the beginning tough stage will not be easy for sure and all I can hope for is for me to stay strong! I am positive about this...or rather, just trying to be an optimist. Whatever it will be, I know I've been loved and being loved by someone I love and will always love, my fatty.

The future, the long long path to the future, where we can venture into...

  ...awaiting us